It is very important that the purpose of your close relationship with the opposite sex is very clear. 

Guys, state your intention from the onset! There's nothing like let's see how it goes... 

What are you seeing? Ehn? 

Ladies, if a guy is not interested in marriage and just wants to hang around you, don't be shy about letting him know you are interested in marriage. 

Yes! It is your life o and you're in charge! 

Let him know you don't have time to waste. 

If he is not interested in marriage, he should wakapass! 

This does not make you look desperate at all , it just tells the guy that you know what you want and saves you from unnecessary heart breaks if he is not ready for marriage. 

How can you have been together for like two years and you don't really know if he'll marry you. What??? 

 Don't you know that anyone who you spend your time with is spending a portion of your life that you can never get back? 

 Don't let anyone waste your life.

 While you're busy thinking you're a great pair, you'll be shocked he/she thinks you're just "good friends".

Please, define that relationship 

Regards

Dr Blessing Ekundayo