She was fed up and "drained", in her words and asked what to do. I replied her message by counselling her against taking such a step as that was a red flag! I didn’t hear anything back from her after my reply. Others who commented on the post advised her against the wedding.

She recently got back to me and told me that she got married to the guy and the marriage packed up after one year sadly. 

I felt really sorry to hear it but at the same time, I was not surprised the marriage packed up. My shock was why she went ahead despite all the warnings and red flags. 

Dear singles, if you're in a relationship and you're constantly at logger heads, having headache regularly because of that person; that's all the litmus test that you need that that marriage will hit the rocks. That's the sign from God that you have been waiting for. You don't need any prophecy. 

God is the author of peace. Once you lose your peace, it's a sign God's presence is not in it. Let the peace of God be your compass in your relationship and you will never get it wrong.

 MARRIAGE IS NOT A DO OR DIE AFFAIR.

 Dr Blessing Ekundayo