If he would abuse you in marriage, some of the subtle signs would be present a lot of times while dating if you pay attention to it…

When you are constantly being put down and being made to feel worthless in that relationship, be sure that he would do worse in marriage.

When he is domineering and threatening, insisting that you obey his command even when it hurts you, that’s the another sign.

When you he hits you and then blames you for his action instead of apologising, you are going to get more hits in marriage.

When he physically violates you and tells you that it is a weakness of his, then apologises and repeats the cycle…. That’s a red flag!

Run for your life!!! You haven’t found Mr Right yet, sister. No matter how handsome or heavily anointed he appears to be; he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

Don’t marry a handsome devil! He will not change just because you marry him!

If you have already, don’t sacrifice your life on the altar of marriage. It is not worth it! Leave that man and stop trying to fix him!

There is much more to your life than an abusive marriage. Don’t let a man who does not value your destiny cut it short!

God values your life and needs you alive to fulfill His purpose!

Marriage is honourable but an abusive marriage is not.

Say NO to domestic violence!

I hope this helps someone?

God bless you.

Regards

Dr Blessing Ekundayo

Relationship Educator and Mental Health Practitioner