Ladies, marry a man that will not take nonsense from anyone, just to protect you!

Ok, so we dressed up that day to hangout with some friends o, not long after getting married.

While hanging out, I noticed one guy was just putting me down skilfully, passed some demeaning comments for no reason but I just laughed it off after all, I was new to oyinbo land, may be that’s how they joke here, so I thought but he was not an oyinbo guy. I later told hubby but he told me not to worry too much about it.

Anyway, fast forward to later that week, he got chatting with my King, and passed a comment at him saying “Small Blessing is now doing ….”. That was it o! My husband couldn’t take it anymore, ‘My wife? Small what?’ Told him off immediately and warned him sternly! That was the end of the friendship!

Ladies, marry a man who will stand up to protect you!

Marry a man who will not allow anyone throw shade at you!

Marry a man who will not allow his family treat you like an outcast!

Marry a man who will look anyone in the eye and dare them to touch you!

Marry a man who knows your value and will treat you as priceless!

I hope this has blessed you.

Lots of love,

Dudushewa