Dear Ladies,

What do you value?

Once upon a time, a single lady who was an upcoming gospel artiste sent me a message complaining bitterly about her fiancé. He had never attended any of her rehearsals or ministrations, he was always busy!

Despite her complaints to him, he didn’t change, he didn’t show any interest in her ministry; instead, he gave one excuse or the other.

She wanted counsel about what to do with him. I told her, that’s already a red flag!

See, when you are in a relationship, and you are already feeling uneasy and unhappy; nagging and nagging about a particular thing that you can’t seem to do without, yet no change, no remorse. That’s a red flag!

Some people would say let me hear what God is saying…

Sister, what else do you want to see or hear? God has given you common sense, use it well!

Unless you can live with that habit you detest for the rest of your life, then go ahead. But if you can’t, then you don’t want to be miserable all your life!

Marriage does not change anyone; it reveals who people truly are!

Marry on purpose for your purpose!

Marry a man who values what you value!

I hope this helps someone?

Lots of love

Dr Blessing Ekundayo